Tuesday, August 27, 2013

It's Back-to-School Time!

Well it's that time again and my girls are growing up so fast.  We had such a nice summer together.  It was nice being truly home for them without working.  I was able to be more present and really enjoy the time we had together.  The girls did a few small camp programs through our Park and Recreation program which they enjoyed.  We also had fun at our pool and on the boat.  While I'm so sad to see them go back to school and I will miss them very much during the day, I have so much work to do for both Little Acorn Learning and our new manufacturing company that I am grateful to have time during the day to focus so I can continue to work on being truly present for the girls when they are home instead of trying to squeeze in computer time while they are there.  

This year Keira begins 7th grade . She is turning into such a beautiful young woman and really that - a woman.  She is changing so much and I can see the adult in her looking back at me.  It's an odd feeling really - to see both the child and the adult in your daughter's eyes.  It is bittersweet. But I am so very grateful to be here to witness her journey into adulthood and try to help guide her along the way.  

My little Maia is entering fourth grade.  She was very happy to find out that a good friend of hers from last year's class is also in this class. Maia can be very quiet and she is easily contented alone working on things in her room, etc.  I love and embrace that about her but I also love to see her when she is engaged in her friendships and having fun laughing and socializing with others.  She was nervous to start a new class this year and it will take some adjusting as all teachers are different and being around a new group of children will take time to get used to again.  She's grown up so much this summer and is really ready for fourth grade.


And last but not least is my little Brianna... first grade here she comes!  After so much history of separation anxiety and fear, I was worried about how this year would go.  We were so lucky to have the most wonderful Kindergarten teacher you could imagine last year who helped Brianna have the most wonderful experience.  I was surprised that Brianna was not overly nervous or worried about getting on the bus to go to a new class!  I am so glad that we waited an extra year for her because it has given her the confidence she needed.  She is proud of herself for being a big first grader and I told her to be sure to help any Kindergarten children who may be worried or shy.  She's always so sweet to children who need it and the idea of that really made her feel good.  She enjoyed her first day at school but did indicate that it was a lot more work than last year.  I'm hoping she does well with the adjustment and feels comfortable in her new class soon.


To celebrate back-to-school time, the September 2013 Photo Contest from Little Acorn Learning has begun on our Facebook Group!

This month's theme is 'Back-to-School'!  Whether you homeschool, unschool or use traditional schools, send us your photos!! Get creative and use your imagination.

Send no more than 3 photos per family or school to info@littleacornlearning.com along with your name and permission to use your photo in any future publications via Little Acorn Learning - Please do not post photos here as they get lost and do not get put in the correct album for voting.

We will then ask our readers to click the ones they LIKE the best! Be sure to LIKE your own photos and ask family and friends to do the same. The winners of our contest will receive a FREE e-book of their choice from Little Acorn Learning.  A great start to the school year!

Our contest will end on September 3rd and votes will be tallied.

Best of luck!

Monday, August 19, 2013

Name that Beetle! An Identification Contest from Little Acorn Learning :)

How about another fun identification contest?  This is a wonderful way to encourage your children to research and learn more about the natural world around them.  If your children do not use the internet, take them to the library to research what type of insect this may be.

This large beetle was on the ground outside of a location my husband and I were visiting for work.  It caught my eye as it looked similar to a ladybug but was very big!
We live in Connecticut.  Can you identify this beetle?

Take a shot at it and leave your findings in comments below along with any links you want to share to support your hypothesis.  If you have an interesting fact to share about this beetle, please include it.  On August 23rd we will come back here and pick a random winner (you do not have to guess our insect correctly to win, just enter!).  The winner will get to choose a Little Acorn Learning e-book of their choice so be sure to stop back by and see if you won!

Best of luck to you!

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

The Truth About Public School Verses Waldorf Education

As I sit to write this post, I am flooded with many memories of the hours upon hours that I spent researching, brainstorming and obsessing about my daughters' education.  If you asked me back then if I could ever see myself content and happy with my girls attending public school, I would have said no.  You can go back through my blog and see all of the posts that I vented in about choosing the right option for our girls.  I literally made myself sick over-thinking it all but here I am finally happy and content with our decision to stick with public school and I hope my story may help some of you out there dealing with the same choice.

My oldest daughter went through our town's public school system all the way through graduation.  Right before she attended middle school was about the same time that I discovered Waldorf Education.  Being a single mom with her for many years and just trying to make ends meet was priority back then and it wasn't until I was married and settled years later that I was able to look into different forms of parenting and education.

I instantly fell in love with the holistic and beautiful approach that Waldorf Education had to offer.  Being very spiritual and open to many different ideas, the spiritual aspect that may frighten off many who first come to Waldorf actually also intrigued me.  While I am still uncertain if I agree with all of Waldorf or Anthroposophy as a whole, the model of education is the closest that I've found that proves to be the healing, artistic and nurturing model I believe our world needs.

It is easy to get pulled in to the beauty of Waldorf.  Not just the lovely wool toys and silk playthings but also the beauty of chalkboard drawings, children making their own text books, knitting and handwork in school and circle time.  It was wonderful for me to see teachers being allowed to use their creativity and song to lead and hold the children's attention in class.

Once being exposed to such an option, it surely pronounces all that we know is wrong with the public school model in our country:  standardized testing, loss of the arts, limited outdoor time, burnt out teachers, etc.  All of us want what is best for our children and I started longing for my children to have a Waldorf Education.  I started analyzing everything that was wrong with the public school model and convinced myself it was not a good option for our family any longer.

We are lucky to have a Waldorf school not too far away.  At the time I was running a Waldorf-Inspired childcare in my home and did my best to keep a natural and low-media environment for my own girls.  Does this mean they never watched a movie?  No.  Did they eat donuts once in awhile and play with plastic toys sometimes?  Yes.  But I did my best and strived to keep these things to a minimum and fill their days with holistic activities, plenty of outdoor time and healthy foods.

I obsessed about sending my girls to the Waldorf School after that.  I tried to work the numbers is unimaginable ways.  Big huge numbers.  Larger than mortgage payment numbers.  I spent hours upon hours trying to figure it out.  I considered taking Waldorf teacher training so that I could get a job at the school and received reduced tuition.  I oddly became afraid of them going to public school even though my oldest daughter was excelling in the same system.

When it became clear that Waldorf school would not be an option for our family financially, I considered Waldorf Homeschooling.  Homeschooling is not something I would have ever considered until I began selling the Little Acorn Learning e-books and a slew of homeschoolers became my new customers.  I started to see all of these amazing families offering their children a holistic education in their own homes and I began thinking maybe this was the path for us.

After many, many years of going back and forth (even trying out homeschooling here and there), I began to realize that it just was not going to work for us either.  Running a childcare program and writing my e-books took up every ounce of my time.  I needed to use any bit of free time I had to care for our home and there was just no more of me to go around.  It would not be a gift to my children or myself to homeschool and it likely would not have been done effectively with our lifestyle.

The reality was, as my husband knew clearly all along, that public school was the best choice for our family.  We are very lucky to live in an amazing town with some of the best public schools around.  I decided we would have to stick to being Waldorf Afterschoolers.  I tried to embrace this idea and was happy to see I was not alone.  Yet, I did grieve the loss of Waldorf Education for my daughters.  It is a beautiful option and I wanted it for them... but it was not an option for us.

If our schools were not good ones, I'm not sure what I would have done.  I'm sure I would have found a way to homeschool or afford another type of private school.  All of the concerns I listed above about public education were (and still are) definitely a factor.  But, what I was forgetting were all of the wonderful things about being part of our town's public school system.  I was so wrapped up in worry and dreaming about Waldorf that I became blinded.  My concerns were fear-based and it is never good to make decisions based on fear.

The truth is that:

**Waldorf is a beautiful way to educate but it is not the ONLY way.  

**Our public school experience has helped us to form the most amazing friendships, support systems, sense of community and pride in the town we live in.  I know you can find a wonderful community in many schools but there is something special about sharing this with people who live in the same town or city as you.  The connection branches out into the streets, library, stores and parks that you frequent.

**Public school has many challenges and it is not perfect, but facing those challenges head on (with my guidance) has helped my daughters learn to problem-solve and think of ideas to help create change and make things better.

**Life is not perfect and trying to create a perfect world for my children will not serve them later in life.  It is ok to not get everything we want (even for Mamas) and it is ok and REAL if things in our lives are imperfect.

**The most important thing in the world is the love in your home and the relationship you create and foster with your children and spouse.  Everything else is secondary.  This includes the school that they attend or the method used in their education.

**You can still be a Waldorf family if you are not using Waldorf schools.  You will have more challenges and may have to give a little more than if you were surrounded by other Waldorf families all of the time but it will be OK and your children will be OK too.

**There are also wonderful things to be said about NOT being surrounded by the same type of families as you all of the time.  My daughters have been friends with children of all races, religions, political backgrounds, parenting methods and styles and have a deep love and appreciation for diversity.  I am very thankful for this.

**There are more loving and committed teachers in public schools than you think.  We have been so very lucky to have had so many of them in our lives.

**The few not-so-great teachers we have had have also taught us a few things.  In many cases, it has strengthened my resolve in advocating for my children and thinking of ways to assist in making positive change in the classroom as a parent.  It has also given my children the opportunity to communicate their needs, concerns and seek out help when they need it.

**You can be PART of the movement to improve our public schools.  I have become very active in the PTO at my daughter's middle school, held nature programs in my town to offer more outdoor time to students and spoken up when I felt strongly about issues that have come up in our schools and town.  We should not sit by and complain about what is wrong, we should help do something about it.

**Our country needs healthy and good public schools.  We need to be part of the process to help make this a reality.  That is not to say we should martyr our children to do so.  If you feel your children are unsafe or not served well by your schooling options in your town or city, you need to make the best choice for your family but I do feel it is our responsibility as citizens to work to make things better so all children can receive a good education because most cannot afford something as beautiful as what Waldorf has to offer.

**We often do not give our children enough credit.  If we are mindful parents and model good values and decision making, our children more often than not will do the same.  Trust yourself as parent.  What you teach them in the home will follow them throughout life.  My children have made such wonderful choices with their friendships and decisions as they grow up.  Keep the communication open without judgement and help guide them (sometimes without them knowing) and you too can trust that you child will make good choices and succeed.

**All over the world there are young people fighting and losing their lives to be allowed to have an education at all.  I began feeling pretty guilty for not being grateful that my children have the choice to be anything they want to be in life and receive an education in freedom.  Be thankful.

So as back-to-school time approaches, it feels good to finally be in a place where I am happy with our educational choice for our girls.  I can even say I am grateful for it.

I hope this post helps some of you who may find yourself in a similar place that I was so long ago.

xoxo
Eileen

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Walk Through My Garden...

It's August and our garden is still growing.  It doesn't always happen at the pace that I hope for but each day we can pick a few things and enjoy them.  We have a lot of cucumbers.  Both the type for salads and pickling.  
 Every once in awhile a beautiful weed pops up that I just can't bring myself to pull.  Look at this beauty!
This year I planted one Okra plant but have absolutely no idea what to do with it.  If anyone has good recipes, I'd love to hear about them.

This is the first year my corn has been successful (so far!).  It is so neat to see the baby corn growing on each stalk.  The girls cannot wait until its time to harvest these.
I have not yet had one tomato turn red.  The plants all seem to be doing well but I had assumed I'd have plenty of tomatoes before August.  I hope they make it before the weather gets too cool.
 Look at this HUGE cucumber we grew!
Green beans have always been the easiest thing for me to grow where we live.  We get plenty and they need very little care.
The carrots are still not big enough for picking.  We are going to have a TON of them when they finally are ready.
Lettuce was awesome this year.  We had plenty of salads but it has finally come to an end.  No more lettuce left for picking.

My raspberry bush has only produced a few berries and they are taking FOREVER to ripen.  I'm not sure if this is the norm with these bushes or what but it is frustrating.
We picked all of our onions.  They were very small but I think it was the type that I planted (I don't remember what I bought).  We have them tucked away to use for dinners and have enjoyed many of them already.
 This squash made me so happy this week.  It is an acorn squash and it is just growing and growing.  So exciting!

We picked only one zucchini so far and another one has grown now.  I originally had three plants but slugs got into the stem of one and rotted it out so now we only have two plants.  I'm curious to see how many grow from them.
I thought this was an acorn squash but now I'm realizing that it is most likely butternut.  I planted a bunch of different varieties in one area and was not good about marking down which was which.
How's is your garden growing?  I should have planted Fall crops midway through but did not.  My pumpkin and squash plants are doing very well though and will suffice.  Next year I hope to add a few more boxes and expand my garden by another 50%.  I'm not sure I'll bother tackling broccoli, brussel sprouts or cabbage though... it was too much of an uphill battle.

One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish.... Bluefish!

This past weekend we took the girls to see the Bridgeport Bluefish baseball team.  I know the title of this post is a bit corny but it is exactly what the girls and I kept thinking of every time we heard the team's name.  I guess Dr. Seuss has left a lasting impression on us.  

I'm not big into sports but the event was definitely fun.  We invited a few friends along and their children and we were so lucky to have amazing box seats.  It worked out perfectly for the two youngest children in our group who had a very hard time sitting still for that long.  They were able to go in and out of the box and keep busy.

It was free hat day so we all got Bluefish hats.  The game went on and on though and before long it was super late and the kids were getting tired and over-stimulated for sure.


Then to top off the evening we had a surprise visitor come to our box.  It was a lot of fun and Brianna was shocked to see a big bluefish walk in the door!  I wish I got a photo of her face.
This video was the best part of the night.  Every time the funky music would play, one of the dads would go inside the box and flicker the lights while the children danced on the counters.  It was hysterical and the kids had a blast doing it!!!  Needless to say everyone slept VERY well that night.  

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Maia's Birthday Celebration



We celebrated with a combined family and friend party at our home for Maia's birthday celebration.  It was a full and busy week of preparing, planning and organizing.  My next door neighbor made a beautiful sandcastle cake to go along with our beach theme and everyone was able to enjoy the outdoors and the pool.

I had this vision that I'd have so much time this summer to write and focus on my business but the truth of the matter is that caring for the girls and the household duties completely consume the hours I have in each day.  I am grateful to be home with them and I would not want it any other way.  But I have found myself feeling as if I am barely keeping my head above water more often than not.  I'm not sure how I ran a daycare before!!!  I guess we fill our time one way or another.  I know I will look back on these years and not care about how clean my home was or if I blogged frequently enough.  I will look back and hold on tightly to these memories of my daughters.  I try to keep that in mind when I feel like I'm having trouble keeping up.

Having a home party was the absolute best.  I'm not really sure why we ever tried to do it elsewhere in the past.  Everyone who loved Maia was there and there was no time limit or rush.  I hope to continue to have our parties at home in the upcoming years.  

Thursday, August 1, 2013

Gardening with Children Photo Contest!

Today is the last day to enter and vote for the winners of our August Facebook Photo Contest!  It's not too late - we will accept photos until 2:30 p.m. EST today and then tally up votes this evening after 8 p.m. EST.



Do you have photos of your children helping in the garden? Win a FREE e-book from Little Acorn Learning by entering our August Facebook Photo Contest

This month's theme is Gardening with Children!!! Get creative and use your imagination. 
Send no more than 3 photos per family or school to info (at) littleacornlearning.com along with your name and permission to use your photo in any future publications via Little Acorn Learning - Please do not post photos here as they get lost and do not get put in the correct album for voting. 


Be sure to LIKE your own photos and ask family and friends to do the same. The winners of our contest will receive a FREE e-book of their choice from Little Acorn Learning.